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Friday, May 25, 2018

Methods Of Conversing With Your Husband Hard Of Hearing

By Nancy Walker


At the time, misfortune befalls us and we are unable to overcome it. For example, we may get involved in an accident that badly injures us and we are unable to go back to our former selves. We may lose the ability to walk or even see or hear. After such an occurrence, we need to learn a whole new way of life. Below are some of the pointers on how to speak to your husband hard of hearing.

When a speaking to a person with difficulty in hearing, it is important to be considerate of this fact. Therefore, before you begin to speak, make a point of catching the persons attention. With normal people, you could just begin to talk but with them, concentration is paramount on their part. To avoid them not following the conversation, it is important to inform them before you talk.

It is obvious that you cannot see in the dark. The same way, a person can sometimes not hear what you might be saying even if their listening aid is on. To make it easier for them, make sure you are always facing them when you speak so that they are able to read your lips. The hearing aid only makes the sound louder for them to hear not clearer.

Enunciate as much as you can and maintain a steady pace of talking. Enunciating makes it clearer to hear whatever is being said. The steady pace of speech gives the person a chance to read your lips and understand you. If you speak too fast they may not at all understand what you are saying while speaking too slow makes lip reading harder.

Pick a quiet place. As mentioned before, hearing aids magnify the noise rather than clearing it up. So if you are going out go to one of the quiet and peaceful restaurants, or pick a corner booth with good lighting. At home, you should try to minimize the noise like turning down the AC and putting off the music when you speak.

Many are times while groups of friend decide to spend time together. In such a case, be mindful of the person who has difficulty hearing. Make sure that you are in a well light place and the person can hear whatever it is you are saying. Make sure you take turns in speaking otherwise it will be quite hard for them to get what is being said.

At times, you may be needed to repeat saying something a few times before they get it. Sometimes the words you use may prove difficult for them to understand and it is at that point that you will need to rephrase your sentence. If all of that still does not work, try spelling out the first few letters of the difficult word.

You want this person to feel comfortable around you. This can be done by maintaining a sense of humor. If you get what the other person is saying wrong, lighten up the mood and make as much fun of it as you can.




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