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Friday, December 12, 2014

How To Meet A Nintendo Fanatic Online Friend In IRL

By Claudine Hodges


As a gamer, it is only natural to be active in on-line groups that deal with the types of online game that you love. This is the place where you get to meet a lot of people who have the same likes as you. It is also a place where you can speak about the same topics without running out of things to say to those individuals who are similar to you.

The said online group is certainly more active the more gamers there are who participate with the conversation. You can meet a lot of Nintendo fanatic there. If you are a fan of this game yourself, you will surely end up with more and more friends. It is the best outlet that you can use to indulge yourself in your hobby.

If you have stayed in this community for a long time, then you might receive an invitation to join an IRL meeting in no time. This particular meeting is set up for the sake of meeting friends you made online in real life. If you are about to attend this particular meeting, then here are tips which you should consider.

First, you have to make sure to agree to meet up in a safe place. Preferably, you should only agree if the venue is a public place. This is for your own safety. Out of the many options you have for a venue where online friends can meet up, the most suitable choice is the local restaurant.

It is oftentimes okay to bring a friend when the meeting is held. Of course, you might ask for permission from the administrator of the meeting if you really want to bring a friend with you. When you bring a friend, you should be able to keep yourself considerably safe.

It is fine to expect the online friends to not creep you out during the meeting. Most importantly, you must not be creepy yourself. You have to show impeccable manners and be courteous to the online friends you are meeting up. No matter how long you are friends with them online, they are still strangers.

You can rely on your instincts when making a decision as to whether or not you will attend an IRL meeting. When you feel like the person online is creeping you out and he or she asks you to meet up IRL, then you can simply say no. Do not be afraid to offend them since they do not really know you.

Do your own research. If someone has asked to meet up with you in real life, you have to get to know a little bit about them. Try to know some things about this person beforehand. This should allow you to determine whether or not this person is a weirdo. What you learn about this person can also be a conversation starter.

You have to be wary of the things you talk about with this person. Try to keep your personal issues personal. Do not expose yourself too much to the people you just met for the first time. Try to keep the topic at a level that is okay to share.




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